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Pregnancy Sex Drive: On, Off, or Set to “Unexpected”?

Your drive’s unpredictable. Like your cravings.

So you’re pregnant and your sex drive is doing cartwheels like an over-caffeinated squirrel? Or perhaps it’s taken a nap, only to awaken in the third trimester with a vengeance. Either way, you're in the right place. Today, we're diving into the whimsical, often bewildering world of pregnancy sex drive. You know, that unpredictable force that’s as constant as your craving for pickles and chocolate sandwiches at 3 AM.

Pregnancy: The weird and the wonderful in equal measure.

Pregnant sex drives are like a box of chocolates, and I'm not just using that metaphor because, let's face it, we're all thinking about chocolate right now. Whether you're glowing like a goddess or more "glistening" with sweat while trying to get off the couch, your libido can be just as unpredictable. This roller-coaster ride of hormones can take some unexpected turns, but trust us, you're far from alone on this wild journey.

If you're anything like the rest of us, you might be wondering why your libido insists on imitating a yo-yo. The factors influencing your sex drive during pregnancy are as varied and strange as the topics covered in your high school biology class:

5 Things That Might Send Your Sex Drive Into Overdrive:

  1. Increased Blood Flow: Yes, all that extra blood isn't just for making you feel hot and dizzy! It also increases sensitivity down there. You might find that your erogenous zones are throwing a spontaneous party.
  2. Hormonal Surges: Your hormones are prepping for a baby, and your libido might just want an invite to the party.
  3. Revved-Up Confidence: That glorious pregnancy glow might leave you feeling more like a bombshell than ever.
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  5. Increased Connection: You and your partner are on this crazy ride together—literally building a human! That can be like putting a match to kindling.

But it’s not all Cupid and arrows. Let’s be real, pregnancy can also flip your libido switch to “off”, faster than you can say “triple heart bypass” on reality TV.

Worst 5 Libido Downers During Pregnancy:

  1. Fatigue and Exhaustion: Creating life is hard work! You’re not just tired; you’re a whole new level of tired that requires new words because “exhausted” doesn’t cover it.
  2. Morning Sickness: The name is misleading—this could hit you at any time. Hard to be in the mood when you're feeling more like a queasy sailor on a turbulent sea.
  3. Body Aches and Pains: Lugging around a mini watermelon means your back is no longer team you. The mood isn't exactly enhanced by constant aches.
  4. Concerns Over Body Image: Your body’s changing—and while it’s magical, it can also be a bit jarring.
  5. Anxiety and Stress: The future can seem daunting with this new little person on the way, making it tough to disconnect and get in the mood.
Your libido during pregnancy can be an enigma—a mystery wrapped in a hormone-sandwich and sprinkled with midnight snack cravings.

It's totally normal to feel some desire for intimacy or to not feel any at all. Communication and honesty are key here. Talk with your partner about how you're feeling—men

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tally and physically. It might lead to unexpected closeness, or at the very least, a good laugh at your mutual bewilderment.

Pregnancy: Reimagining Intimacy

Some couples find that pregnancy opens a door to a whole new level of intimacy and connection, while others are challenged by the changes and unpredictability it brings. So how do you navigate these uncharted waters?

Here’s a Top 3 Tips list to re-ignite the flame:

  • Experiment with New Positions: Your body is changing, and the same old positions may not feel great. This is your golden opportunity to get creative. Shifting from the go-to positions might just bring unexpected pleasure.
  • Set the Scene: Candles, music, essential oils—the whole works. Think of it as creating a spa experience, but for the bedroom. Also, scents like lavender can be fantastic mood setters.
  • Embrace Foreplay: With sensitivity at an all-time high, take your time exploring each other without pressure.

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Bottom Line: Follow the Fun! (Or the Nap—Both are Totally Valid)

The key takeaway here? Embrace your inner desires, or lack thereof, without judgment. Every pregnancy is different, and whatever you’re feeling—or not feeling—is perfectly normal. The mystical magical journey to parenthood is filled with surprises, and sometimes that includes finding your joy and intimacy in the little things.

At the end of the day, the best thing to do is enjoy each stage as it comes, in all its unpredictable glory, knowing you’ve got a fantastic pair of leggings and a brilliant sense of humour to see you through. Whether you’re scouting the kitchen for late-night snacks or discovering new depths of connectivity with your partner, it’s all a part of this wild ride we call pregnancy!

So, here’s to you and this unabashedly unpredictable journey! 🎉

May your cravings be odd, and your desires unfiltered.

Because growing a human is a wild, wild ride.

Cheers and baby bump love,

The Emamaco Team

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